I was already sitting down, and instead of waiting for my lecture she laid across my lap waiting for the spanking. I remember one time Paige earned a spanking and I told her so, and she walked right over to me.
On the other spectrum, I've had times when my kids completely comply. I gave her the spanking, then told her not to run off like that again or she would get a much worse spanking. She was crying the whole time, but actually was much calmer.
I gave my little lecture once she was in position over my lap because I was worried she would try running off again. I brought her inside, to her to the couch, and quickly bent her over my knee.
Somehow she got through to Sasha and Sasha walked over to me. My neighbor, who happened to be pro-spanking as well, told Sasha "Its best if you just go inside and get it over with." Good thing she was there, as I was not happy about having to go through this whole dramatic scene. I told her that Sasha was going to get a spanking for disobeying me and she was avoiding me. Finally, a neighbor broke up the "stand off" as she walked by, asking what was wrong. I calmly asked "Are you going to come inside, Sasha? I am not going to go chasing after you." She apologized to me, but did not budge. This is a scenario I fear, but really it was just my daughter being hysterical rather than my daughter actually running away. She immediately screamed at me "NO!" and ran off. Recently my daughter Sasha disobeyed me and I told her she was going to get a spanking. Parents have to learn to deal with this, as it can be emotionally difficult to spank your child when you know they do not like it at all. On average, I usually tell them they are getting a spanking, they cry and whine about how they don't want one, then they usually follow me to the spot and comply. My children, like all children, hate getting spanked, so when I tell them they are to receive one, they are never happy. This work is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution-Noncommercial-No Derivative Works 3.0 United States License."Are your children ever defiant when they are told they are going to get a spanking?": Yes, sometimes they are defiant. Some rebellion, huh? You know what, I'm going to take classes! Yeah that's what! I did my homework, and took summer classes a couple of years to get through my minor. My rebellion came late, almost after my teen years were up and I was not under their roof.īut I still loved my parents enough to want to call home from college every week. Luckily, I'm so short, he can!Īll teenagers rebel against their parents. Now that I'm a parent, if one of my kids pulled this stunt, I'd be pretty pissed too. My parents felt betrayed, like I had thrown the values they instilled in me out the window. I had behaved like the other college students, co-habitating behind closed doors. Lied to them so I could stay with my boyfriend. Dad said he'd have a hard time forgetting this infraction. My Dad was so furious he threatened to spank me, and I was so mad I threatened to call and report it as abuse. 'Jars of Clay' (it was the ' Flood' CD) was the only thing that soothed my soul in the dark as tears silently ran down my cheeks. When I was 18 I did disrespect my parents, and I thought they would disown me. To disrespect your parents is to earn punishment.